I am so sick of people who don't take accountability for their actions. Those people who always have an excuse for why things happen. No! It was your choice. You did it, so own up to it!
The worst are the ones who blame God or the devil for every bad thing. Satan made me do it. No, God gave you the free will to make your own choices, good or bad. Satan didn't make Eve take a bite of the fruit. He just offered up the temptation, and she was too weak-willed to resist. Nor did God stop her from making that decision. He gave her the gift of decision making, and she chose wrong and had to pay the price.
I also can't stand the ones who enable people and let them continue to ruin everyone's life in the process. Why? Why justify and overlook the bad decisions? And how can you ask everyone else to ignore them as well? I am sorry, but I can't simply do that. That person made their own bad decision, and I think they should pay for it. Be held accountable. Lose everything they say they love. If you love something or someone so much, you wouldn't continue to hurt them in that way. Just my thoughts on the matter.
I don't make excuses for anything in my life, and I am honest with everyone. You ask me something, and I am straight up about it. Why oh why is that so hard for so many others? I ask that question often. Most of the time I hear back, oh we wanted to avoid confrontation. Why? It's going to come out in the end anyway right? There is always someone else who knows about it, and won't keep it quiet. Just get it out and deal with it now. Before it drags everyone else down too.
